Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Radiation

Started yesterday! Along with oral Chemotherapy Xeloda.

And that’s not all- "Mr. Joe!" is back at work for the first time in quite a while. The plan, as it stands, is for him to work M-F 10AM - 3 PM, then drive across town for 3:30 radiation. I think it sounds a bit grueling for a cancer patient, but as long as his white blood cell count and energy level holds up, he could use the walking around money.

It’s been a pretty wild week. There’s so much ADJUSTING to do. To everything, for everyone. Joe, Miles, me, Miles’ dad… everyone getting used to the idea and the practicalities of our co-habitation. And I must say, it has not been that easy. Not only have I been completely overwhelmed with work, but Joe and I operate at different speeds, so finding our step was a bit of a challenge. I’ve cried my share of frustrated tears, which I suppose is part of the reason for the infrequent posts. But after a few weeks of getting used to things, I think we’re settling into a rhythm that works. And I LIKE living with Joe. He’s much more domestic than I thought! And he’s a wonderful influence for Miles, the lucky munchkin. He doesn’t treat me half-bad, either. ;)

Anyway, after Day 1 of the new chemo/rad regimen, I think Joe was feeling pretty funky. He’s tired, nauseated, and feels like he’s getting a cold. We’re trying to keep Miles’ germs away as best we can and find foods Joe can stomach. He takes the Xeloda with food, so he has to eat at least twice per day… last night he had a hefty portion of spaghetti with my awesome homemade meat sauce, but this morning he had a hard time finishing a bowl of cereal. Pork chops with nectarine sauce and butter beans tonight…. Favorite recipes welcome!

Thanks, as always, for checking in.

3 comments:

  1. Erin, I commend you for keeping us posted. I have a cancer story of my own, but was an infant so my mother put me into foster care rather than deal with it herself. I don't want to put my public info on your blog other than to say contact my email since everyone has that... sassyhusker1@comcast.net I can give you my cell number and if you ever want to talk I am here. I have also had skin cancer a couple times but that is nothing compared to what you are going through. I know you don't know me, but I am a co-worker of Joe's and I admire you for sticking it out with him. If I can be of any assistance or my family, let me know. I am on fb Renee Donahue Robinson. I really hope everything works out for your "little family". I don't know any details and you don't have to tell me, but just know, you have someone else to lean on and talk to. I don't know if they are telling you to take care of YOU also Erin. I know you don't know me (yet) but please feel free to contact me. I can be a support source for you. Give Joe a hug from me and my family (my daughter is in Kibanda). Stay strong! Livestrong!

    Renee

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  2. Hope you are feeling well, Mister Joe! You are in my prayers.

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  3. Sorry I didn't get to stop and say hey this morning, Joe. Hope you're staying strong and positive and not working too hard.

    Let's have a play date for the boys soon. Declan came home really excited that he got to see you last week. He said, "Mom, I've got some good news: Mr. Joe is all better now and he is back at school!" He must've rehashed your conversation to me five times.

    Did y'all find a carseat?

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